Are you also becoming a victim of manipulation in your relationship? Know how cunning people use your straightforwardness? – Global News Desk

Friendship and love are relationships that we choose. If we find good friends and love then life improves. But when people start looking for their own benefit in these relationships, then manipulation begins. In fact, we become so engrossed in relationships that we do not even realize that we are being manipulated. Let us tell you what manipulation is and how people manipulate in relationships.

What is manipulation?

Manipulation simply means taking advantage of your friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, whoever and then disappearing when he or she needs you. That means using someone else for your benefit. Nowadays, in relationships like doi or love, people get their work done by manipulating the other person and when they need it, they themselves disappear. It has a very bad effect on the mental health of the person being manipulated.

This is how people manipulate relationships:

• Controlling thoughts: Many times people become so generous in relationships that they do not even realize that they are acting as per the wishes of the other person. That means your friend or partner has complete control over your thinking. You do everything as per their liking but when it comes to you, it is not that important for them.

• Disappear when needed: Whenever your friend or partner needs you, you are there with them, from going for a walk to going to the hospital. But when you need them for some work, they make some excuse or the other.

• Reducing Incentives: If you want to do some work but your friend or partner refuses saying that you will not be able to do it. You will not be able to do this work. And if this has happened many times, it means that they discourage you again and again,

• Disrespect in front of others: If your friends find faults in everything you do and shout at you in front of others, then you should immediately get out of such a relationship. Whether the relationship is of friendship or marriage

• Being emotional to get your work done: If your friends are repeatedly making you emotional in order to withdraw their earnings, then you should be careful.

• false praiseThere is a lot of difference between praise and false praise. Now you have to decide whether the other person is really praising you or is just doing all this to remain in the good list.