Many times, children get spoiled by pampering and gradually start ignoring what their parents say. The limit is reached when children do not listen to their parents and insist on every small and big thing. This type of behavior is seen a lot in children between 5 to 8 years of age. In such a situation, parents often face a dilemma and they start wondering how to bring their children on the right path without scolding them. If you are also going through this difficult phase of parenting, then let us tell you how you can explain to your children without shouting or raising hands:
Follow these tips:
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Teach to value time right from childhood: If you want your child to become disciplined, then first of all bring discipline in his life. When your child does any work according to the prescribed routine, he will respect others and discipline will also develop in him.
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Explain the difference between right and wrong: If your child is doing something wrong then immediately stop him and if he is doing something good then definitely praise him. In fact, scolding children for their negative behavior and not praising their positive behavior makes them stubborn.
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Teach sharing: Raise your child with 'Sharing is Caring' moral. If he has these habits, he will be able to share things easily with other children or adults and these habits will help in preventing him from becoming stubborn.
Do not fulfill every request of the child: Because of pampering, every request of the child in the house, from clothes to toys, is fulfilled. Because of this they become very stubborn and demand everything. To get what they want, children start lying on the floor in the mall or shop. In such a situation, be patient with yourself and explain to them. It is your responsibility to make them value everything, so do not fulfill all their unnecessary requests.
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spend time with children: If you want your child to listen to you and obey you, then first of all make time for him. Play with him and talk to him a lot. With this he will find you closest to him and will also listen to you.
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